DARE TO BE.

IT DOESN’T MATTER.

More often than we would like it, we find ourselves in certain situations where EVERYONE is against you. Yes, against. Well, maybe not against you, you, but against your wants and decisions in life. Yes, these people are the ones who truly care about you because they do the difficult task of standing up to point out what they think is not right or not the best for you. But it doesn’t matter…

Family. The members of your family are the most trustworthy people that you can have in your life. Whatever they do or think, rest assured, it’s most likely for your own good. And because these people love you the most, they tend to oppose the most, too. Maybe they wouldn’t confront you directly, but they are the more more more worried than yourself. But it doesn’t really matter…

Friends. Some are care-free, some are reserved, and some won’t bother. But whatever kind of friends you have, they all care and wouldn’t want anything bad happen to you. When they think that something’s not right, they tend to confront you directly about it (if they are true friends). They are happy as long as you’re happy but once they see you in tears, they are more ready to go to battle. Sometimes, when they think you’re being stupid about something, they will try to talk you out of it. But again, it doesn’t really matter…

Family and friends DO MATTER, they are important. Their opinions? Sometimes useful, but most of the time will only make you go crazier. Remember, whenever we are in the middle of a not-so-wonderful situation, your family and friend will always be there for you, BUT, you are the only one who truly knows what is at hand. You are the only one who can fully understand the circumstances. You are the only one who feels exactly the way you are feeling. So, the things other people think or say? They don’t really matter.

I say, live your life the way you want to live it. Decide for yourself, after all, it is you who will face the consequences. (Whatever effect things have with your family and friends, well, you’ll have to bear it, too!)

Love and love a lot.♥